I am extending BaseAdapter to make a custom listview row. I have context menu that opens everytime a user holds on the row and prompts if he wants to delete it. However how
You should add a Listener on your adapter to handle the delete event.
public YourAdapter(Context context, List rows, View.OnClickListener deleteListener)
{ ... }
And on your getView() method set the listener
yourBtn.setOnClickListener(this.deleteListener);
You can add a value on the btn tag to identifiy the current row :
yourBtn.setTag(position);
Finally, on your Activity, your listener will fire with the current position in tag. You can then use the previous answer to update your adapter and refresh your listview.