i\'ve seen alot of php based websites where no matter where you navigate your stuck at the index.php and some random parameters are passed in the url. and when i take a look
This type of URL allows you to use a single template file that specifies common markup, with an included fragment that contains specific text. That included fragment could be an actual file on the filesystem, or it could be a CLOB in a database, with the "page" parameter giving the primary key.
As other people have noted, passing an exact path is not at all secure -- don't do it. At best, it can be used to probe your website and retrieve non-public content. At worst, it can turn your website into an unwitting proxy for content that you don't want legally associated with you. Somewhere in between, it might provide a hacker the ability to physically insert new content into your site.
A safer approach is to use the database table, or (for smaller sites), an in-memory page table. Here's the code that I use to access the page table for my personal website:
$pageName = (array_key_exists("page", $_GET))
? $_GET["page"]
: null;
$currentPage = (array_key_exists($pageName, $pagetab))
? $pagetab[$pageName]
: $pagetab["home"];