I have a super simple django model here:
class Notification(models.Model):
message = models.TextField()
user = models.ForeignKey(User)
timestamp
Use an inner query to get the set of items you want to keep and then filter on them.
objects_to_keep = Notification.objects.filter(user=user).order_by('-created_at')[:5]
Notification.objects.exclude(pk__in=objects_to_keep).delete()
Double check this before you use it. I have found that simpler inner queries do not always behave as expected. The strange behavior I have experienced has been limited to querysets that are just an order_by and a slice. Since you will have to filter on user, you should be fine.