I understand that it is a replacement for ActiveRecord and that it uses objects instead of queries.
But...
why is this better?
will objects/queries
ARel, is unfortunately tied directly to generating SQL and thus is unsuitable for DataMapper's needs.
The way I would put it is that ARel is an explicit query model for ActiveRecord that generates and optimizes SQL queries for RDBMSes.
DataMapper on the other hand is a genuine mapper for data, and can interface with non-relational data stores already. In the future DataMapper is likely to include a separate library called Veritas, which is intended to provide relational functionality to data sourced from ANY data store, not just RDBMSes.