My database contains rows that generally look like:
PersonItem __________ id personId itemId ╔════╦══════════╦════════╗ ║ ID ║ PERSONID ║ ITEMID ║ ╠════╬═══
Something like this should do the trick:
SELECT P1.* FROM PersonItem P1 INNER JOIN PersonItem P2 ON P2.ID <> P1.ID AND P2.PersonId = P1.PersonId AND P2.ItemId = P1.ItemId