Java: How to remove elements from a list while iterating over/adding to it

Question

This question is a more special case of the problem described (and solved) in this question.

I have two methods, stopAndRemove(ServerObject server) and a close() met

Answer 1

Split off a method stop() from stopAndRemove(). Then write the loop with an explicit iterator, do the stop and then iterator.remove().

"and" in a method name is a code smell.