I execute the follow mongodb command in mongo shell
db.coll.aggregate(...)
and i see the list of result. but is it possible to see the quer
I will write an answer to explain this better.
Basically there is no explain() functionality for the aggregation framework yet: https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/SERVER-4504
However there is a way to measure client side but not without its downsides:
However that being said, you might be able to get a slightly accurate result by doing it in MongoDB console on the same server as the mongos / mongod. This will create very little in betweens, still too many but enough to maybe get a reading you could roughly trust. As such you could use @Zagorulkin's answer in that position.