Does anyone have any experience that indicates what kind of performance hit a developer could expect by choosing to use an ORM (in Django, RoR, SQLAlechemy, etc) over SQL an
It also depends on what you're using as an ORM. In my experience, Hibernate is a pig, in terms of speed, resource usage and startup time. LINQ to SQL, on the other hand, is an extremely light SQL wrapper, whose impact you'd likely barely (if at all) notice.