I am writing an application using openFrameworks, but my question is not specific to just oF; rather, it is a general question about C++ vectors in general.
I wanted
vector addition and internal housekeeping use copies of the original object - if taking a copy is very expensive or impossible, then using a pointer is preferable.
If you make the vector member a pointer, use a smart pointer to simplify your code and minimize the risk of leaks.
Maybe your class does not do proper (ie. deep) copy construction/assignment? If so, pointers would work but not object instances as the vector member.