By default IntelliJ IDEA opens the last project when starting.
How to start IntelliJ without opening last project?
To manage this setting through the config file in IntelliJ IDEA 2019.1 Community Edition, head to ~/Library/Preferences/IdeaIC2019.1/options/ to use Patrick Wilkes' answer with the ide.general.xml edit.
~/Library/Preferences/IdeaIC2019.1/options/