By default IntelliJ IDEA opens the last project when starting.
How to start IntelliJ without opening last project?
IntelliJ 2016.x keeps this information in its own file now. On my MacBook Pro w/OSX:
~/Library/Preferences/IntelliJIdea2016.2/options/recentProjects.xml
If IntelliJ hangs on startup, force quit the app then rename this file to something like "recentProjects.xml.bak."
Upon restart you'll get the option screen for creating or opening a project.
Note: the actual path may vary depending upon which version of IntelliJ you have installed eg.
IntelliJIdea2016.1/ IntelliJIdea2016.2/ IntelliJIdea2016.3/