Here is my simple code:
$(\".test\").change(function(){
alert(\"user clicked\");
});
doesn't work in chrome.
$(".test option").click(function(e){
console.log('click');
});
updated your fiddle.
put the click on the option
EDIT: looks like it isn't possible without a bunch of work like using click on the select and comparing the location it was clicked or something hokey like that.
I am not sure what the end goal is, but the click on the select might work if you can do the processing one extra time when they initially click into it.
another article on it: