Take this regular expression: /^[^abc]/. This will match any single character at the beginning of a string, except a, b, or c.
If you add a *
I believe you need subexpressions. If I remember right you can use the normal () brackets for subexpressions.
This part is From grep manual:
Back References and Subexpressions
The back-reference \n, where n is a single digit, matches the substring
previously matched by the nth parenthesized subexpression of the
regular expression.
Do something like ^[^(abc)] should do the trick.