When should you use 'friend' in C++?

Question

I have been reading through the C++ FAQ and was curious about the friend declaration. I personally have never used it, however I am interested in exploring the language.

Answer 1

At work we use friends for testing code, extensively. It means we can provide proper encapsulation and information hiding for the main application code. But also we can have separate test code that uses friends to inspect internal state and data for testing.

Suffice to say I wouldn't use the friend keyword as an essential component of your design.