Here's what I came up with, using a bit of lookahead and named groups. This is of course just IPv6, but it shouldn't interfere with additional patterns if you want to add IPv4:
(?=([0-9a-f]+(:[0-9a-f])*)?(?P::)(?!([0-9a-f]+:)*:))(::)?([0-9a-f]{1,4}:{1,2}){0,6}(?(wild)[0-9a-f]{0,4}|[0-9a-f]{1,4}:[0-9a-f]{1,4})
