I have followed every single piece of advice I have found to try to get this to work but all of it has been to no avail. Can someone tell me why my description/thumbnail doe
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Got it sorted. Had to use a url that is chock full of craziness:
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As some extra information, I can't remember where I originally found this information but here's what the s=100 part means:
The basic approach is you are providing a link to http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?s=100 which is the basic share page (typically this is shown in a popup).
But I tried changing the numbers and it still goes to the same place.
As for the &p, it's just html code for &p and I think this is the array that Facebook dissects to get at the information.