If the "model" classes are implemented poorly yes, your concern is relevant.
A model class shouldnt be doing Email (infrastructure tasks).
The real question is what does model in MVC imply.
It isnt restricted to POCO classes with a few methods.
Model in MVC means Data and Business logic. Treat it as a superset of classic core POCO models.
View ==== Controller ==== Model ---> Business Process layer --> Core models
Throw in Infrastructure assemblies and Data Access layers and use injection to hand that into the BPL then your a process is using MVC as intended.
BPL may invoke UoW / Respository patterns, and execute business rules and call Infrastructure features by way of injected Objects or interface patters.
So the recommendation to keep a controller skinny doesnt mean the "person" class in a classic Core model should have 50 methods, and call Email directly. You are right to think this is wrong.
The Controller May still be required to instantiate and inject Infrastructure classes into the BPL or core layer if called directly. There should be a business layer or at least classes orchestrating calls across Classic Object model classes.
Well thats my "view" anyway ;-)
For generic take on MVC the wiki description http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Model%E2%80%93view%E2%80%93controller
A Little Blog that talks about the "M" in MVC. http://www.thedeveloperday.com/skinny-controllers/