While using IntelliJ 13 ultimate edition for a week, it just seems really slow.
First of all, the whole IDE stops for a second or so every once in a while. The Java
I had similar issues with a very slow start and heap issues, increasing VM did not make a huge difference, just delayed the inevitable, the fix for me was to invalidate the cache via File > InvalidateCaches/Restart.
https://www.jetbrains.com/help/idea/2016.1/cleaning-system-cache.html