That aspect of template is called the compilation model, not to be confused with the instantiation mechanism which was the subject of How does C++ link template instances.
The instantiation mechanism is the answer to the question "When is the instantiation generated?", the instantiation model is the answer to "Where the source are found?"
There are two standards compilation model:
inclusion, the one that you know, where the definition must be available,
separated, which allows to put the definition somewhere else with the help of the keyword export. That one has been removed from the standard and won't be available in C++0X. One of the raison for removal was that it wasn't widely implemented (only one implementation).
See C++ Templates, The Complete Guide by David Vandevoorde and Nicolai Josuttis or http://www.bourguet.org/v2/cpplang/export.pdf for more information, the separated compilation model being the subject of that later paper.
