As per the comment under this answer, references were introduced primarily to support operator overloading which quotes Bjarne Stroustrup:
References
It's 2019 and you still do not have access to the classes of native types. There is no way to override operators on them.
Pointers are (like char, int, float, etc...) a native type. You can create an object that behaves like a pointer and overload operators [->, *], but that will not overload [->, *] on the the native pointer. You may also, for example, create an object that behaves like an int and overload [+, -, *, /], but that will not overload [+, -, *, /] on the native int.
For pragmatic rational, imagine the chaos if
this->member
had user-defined meaning.
References are an unrelated topic, IMHO.