I have a really simple WPF ListBox with SelectionMode set to Multiple.
When the ListBox loses
This is not an answer to the question, but I found this when I was looking for a way to disable selections in my listboxes. By using a slightly modified form of Guy's & bendewey's technique above, it turns out you can give the appearance of no selections in your listbox without replacing the underlying items control or anything like that. Here's the code I used:
I also found the following MSDN page helpful:
MSDN: SystemColors Members (System.Windows)
Thanks for the help, guys.