I am using php mysqli_connect for login to a MySQL database (all on localhost)
It's working for me (PHP 5.6 + PDO / MySQL Server 8.0 / Windows 7 64bits)
Edit the file C:\ProgramData\MySQL\MySQL Server 8.0\my.ini:
default_authentication_plugin=mysql_native_password
Reset MySQL service on Windows, and in the MySQL Shell...
ALTER USER my_user@'%' IDENTIFIED WITH mysql_native_password BY 'password';