I\'ve been using Git now for a couple of months on a project with one other developer. I have several years of experience with SVN, so I guess I bring a lot of baggage to th
"Conflicts" mean "parallel evolutions of a same content". So if it goes "all to hell" during a merge, it means you have massive evolutions on the same set of files.
The reason why a rebase is then better than a merge is that:
I confirm that the correct workflow in that case (evolutions on common set of files) is rebase first, then merge.
However, that means that, if you push your local branch (for backup reason), that branch should not be pulled (or at least used) by anyone else (since the commit history will be rewritten by the successive rebase).
On that topic (rebase then merge workflow), barraponto mentions in the comments two interesting posts, both from randyfay.com:
Using this technique, your work always goes on top of the public branch like a patch that is up-to-date with current
HEAD.
(a similar technique exists for bazaar)
git push --force (instead of a git pull --rebase for instance)