Recently I searched for a way to initialize a complex object without passing a lot of parameter to the constructor. I tried it with the builder pattern,
Question 1: Regarding the name of the pattern, I like the name "Step Builder":
Question 2/3: Regarding pitfalls and recommendations, this feels over complicated for most situations.
You are enforcing a sequence in how you use your builder which is unusual in my experience. I could see how this would be important in some cases but I've never needed it. For example, I don't see the need to force a sequence here:
Person.builder().firstName("John").lastName("Doe").build()
Person.builder().lastName("Doe").firstName("John").build()
However, many times the builder needed to enforce some constraints to prevent bogus objects from being built. Maybe you want to ensure that all required fields are provided or that combinations of fields are valid. I'm guessing this is the real reason you want to introduce sequencing into the building.
In this case, I like recommendation of Joshua Bloch to do the validation in the build() method. This helps with cross field validation because everything is available at this point. See this answer: https://softwareengineering.stackexchange.com/a/241320
In summary, I wouldn't add any complication to the code just because you are worried about "missing" a call to a builder method. In practice, this is easily caught with a test case. Maybe start with a vanilla Builder and then introduce this if you keep getting bitten by missing method calls.