When to use references vs. pointers

Question

I understand the syntax and general semantics of pointers versus references, but how should I decide when it is more-or-less appropriate to use references or pointers in an

Answer 1

My rule of thumb is:

• Use pointers for outgoing or in/out parameters. So it can be seen that the value is going to be changed. (You must use &)
• Use pointers if NULL parameter is acceptable value. (Make sure it's const if it's an incoming parameter)
• Use references for incoming parameter if it cannot be NULL and is not a primitive type (const T&).
• Use pointers or smart pointers when returning a newly created object.
• Use pointers or smart pointers as struct or class members instead of references.
• Use references for aliasing (eg. int ¤t = someArray[i])

Regardless which one you use, don't forget to document your functions and the meaning of their parameters if they are not obvious.