The contract of equals with regards to null, is as follows:
For any non-null reference value
x,x.equals(null)sho
Think of how .equals is related to == and .compareTo is related to the comparison operators >, <, >=, <=.
If you're going to argue that using .equals to compare an object to null should throw a NPE, then you'd have to say that this code should throw one as well:
Object o1 = new Object();
Object o2 = null;
boolean b = (o1 == o2); // should throw NPE here!
The difference between o1.equals(o2) and o2.equals(o1) is that in the first case you're comparing something to null, similar to o1 == o2, while in the second case, the equals method is never actually executed so there's no comparison happening at all.
Regarding the .compareTo contract, comparing a non-null object with a null object is like trying do this:
int j = 0;
if(j > null) {
...
}
Obviously this won't compile. You can use auto-unboxing to make it compile, but you get a NPE when you do the comparison, which is consistent with the .compareTo contract:
Integer i = null;
int j = 0;
if(j > i) { // NPE
...
}