For homebrew mysql installs, where\'s my.cnf? Does it install one?
On your shell type my_print_defaults --help
At the bottom of the result, you should be able to see the file from which the server reads the configurations. It prints something like this:
Default options are read from the following files in the given order:
/etc/my.cnf /etc/mysql/my.cnf /usr/local/etc/my.cnf ~/.my.cnf