SELECT telephone_number FROM table WHERE telephone_number REGEXP \'^1[() -]*999[() -]*999[() -]*9999$\';
how do i make so its valid for any number
Use:
SELECT telephone_number FROM table WHERE telephone_number REGEXP '^1[() -]*[[:digit:]]{3}[() -]*[[:digit:]]{3}[() -]*[[:digit:]]{4}$';
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