A reddit thread brought up an apparently interesting question:
Tail recursive functions can trivially be converted into iterative functions. Other one
tazzego, recursion means that a function will call itself whether you like it or not. When people are talking about whether or not things can be done without recursion, they mean this and you cannot say "no, that is not true, because I do not agree with the definition of recursion" as a valid statement.
With that in mind, just about everything else you say is nonsense. The only other thing that you say that is not nonsense is the idea that you cannot imagine programming without a callstack. That is something that had been done for decades until using a callstack became popular. Old versions of FORTRAN lacked a callstack and they worked just fine.
By the way, there exist Turing-complete languages that only implement recursion (e.g. SML) as a means of looping. There also exist Turing-complete languages that only implement iteration as a means of looping (e.g. FORTRAN IV). The Church-Turing thesis proves that anything possible in a recursion-only languages can be done in a non-recursive language and vica-versa by the fact that they both have the property of turing-completeness.