Now mex in MATLAB 2012a only officially supports gcc 4.4.6 but I want to use gcc 4.7 at my own risk. Now If I compile something with mex directly, it will complain that
It's a late answer, but I believe the cleanest, most Mathworks-approved and least invasive solution is to edit the .matlab7rc.sh script. This is a script used by the matlab script when you start MATLAB under UNIX-like systems. (See http://www.mathworks.ch/ch/help/matlab/ref/matlabunix.html)
Copy that script (found under {matlabroot}/bin) to the root of your project, or to your home directory. Then tell MATLAB to first search in the system directories for the C++ libraries, instead of its own directories. On my system I changed line 191:
191c191
< LDPATH_PREFIX='/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu'
---
> LDPATH_PREFIX=''
(Simply setting LD_LIBRARY_PATH to the empty string is not a good solution, because that will prevent you from loading other third-party libraries.)
When this is done you might get the following message when running mex:
/usr/bin/ld: cannot find -lstdc++
This usually means that g++ is not installed. On a Debian-like system, run:
sudo apt-get install g++
From here on, you might still get an annoying warning about using a version of gcc beyond what is officially supported, but that is harmless and can be ignored.