I have a table like the following:
This would get you the index of the clicked row, starting with one:
$('#thetable').find('tr').click( function(){
alert('You clicked row '+ ($(this).index()+1) );
});
1 1 1
2 2 2
3 3 3
If you want to return the number stored in that first cell of each row:
$('#thetable').find('tr').click( function(){
var row = $(this).find('td:first').text();
alert('You clicked ' + row);
});