This is solved at last with \"timeout\" attribute of jQuery AJAX (and JSONP). See my own answer !
Please see the updated part, I
I am occasional frontend/javascript/jQuery guy, so this may not be 100% professional, but it is good enough and it solved my similar problem:
ping_desktop_app = $.get({
url: "http://127.0.0.1:#{desktop_app_port}",
dataType: 'jsonp',
})
$(@).parent().find(".click-me-to-use-desktop-app").click ->
if ping_desktop_app.status == 200
$.get({
url: "http://127.0.0.1:#{desktop_app_port}/some_command/123123",
dataType: 'jsonp',
})
else
alert("Please run your desktop app and refresh browser")
I could not check whether port is open (desktop app is running) on server side because views are cached, so I needed to check the localhost/port right before user click in browser
Edits translating to JS are welcome