It seems like there is a lot of Q/A\'s on this topic on stackoverflow, but I can\'t seem to find an exact answer anywhere.
What I have:
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In case anyone comes across this in more recent times, Mongoose now supports join like functionality with a feature called Populate.
From the Mongoose documentation:
Story.findOne({
title: 'Casino Royale'
}).populate('author').exec(function (err, story) {
if (err) return handleError(err);
console.log('The author is %s', story.author.name);
// prints "The author is Ian Fleming"
});
http://mongoosejs.com/docs/populate.html