Yes I read this How to find the port for MS SQL Server 2008?
no luck.
telnet 1433
returns connection failed, so I must s
select * from sys.dm_tcp_listener_states
More there: https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/sql/relational-databases/system-dynamic-management-views/sys-dm-tcp-listener-states-transact-sql?view=sql-server-2017