Not to be an answer per se, I want to rephrase a quote I've heard recently. "A good ORM is like a Yeti, everyone talks about one but no one sees it."
Whenever I put my hands on an ORM, I usually find myself struggling with the problems/limitations of that ORM. At the end, yes it does what I want and it was written somewhere in that lousy documentation but I find myself losing another hour I will never get. Anyone who used nhibernate, then fluent nhibernate on postgresql would understand what I've been thru. Constant feeling of "this code is not under my control" really sucks.
I don't point fingers or say they're bad, but I started thinking of what I'm giving away just to automate CRUD in a single expression. Nowadays I think I should use ORM's less, maybe create or find a solution that enables db operations at minimum. But it's just me. I believe some things are wrong in this ORM arena but I'm not skilled enough to express it what not.
