Ok so this is probably a trivial question but I\'m having trouble visualizing and understanding the differences and when to use each. I\'m also a little unclear as to how co
First of all, read all the fine print. Note that NHibernate (thus, I assume, Hibernate as well) relational mapping has a funny correspondance with DB and object graph mapping. For example, one-to-one relationships are often implemented as a many-to-one relationship.
Second, before we can tell you how you should write your O/R map, we have to see your DB as well. In particular, can a single Skill be possesses by multiple people? If so, you have a many-to-many relationship; otherwise, it's many-to-one.
Third, I prefer not to implement many-to-many relationships directly, but instead model the "join table" in your domain model--i.e., treat it as an entity, like this:
class PersonSkill
{
Person person;
Skill skill;
}
Then do you see what you have? You have two one-to-many relationships. (In this case, Person may have a collection of PersonSkills, but would not have a collection of Skills.) However, some will prefer to use many-to-many relationship (between Person and Skill); this is controversial.
Fourth, if you do have bidirectional relationships (e.g., not only does Person have a collection of Skills, but also, Skill has a collection of Persons), NHibernate does not enforce bidirectionality in your BL for you; it only understands bidirectionality of the relationships for persistence purposes.
Fifth, many-to-one is much easier to use correctly in NHibernate (and I assume Hibernate) than one-to-many (collection mapping).
Good luck!