I am wondering how i can access an sqlite database that is sitting a remote server.I have read threads discouraging it but i need to do it if its possible.
SQLite isn't a network database, so it doesn't have any network connection ability built into it.
You would need to either:
A web application is essentially a web service. If you happen to be running a web application on top of this DB, just expose certain levels of DB access to admins-only.
It's not recommended you do this because multiple threads/clients/etc. accessing a SQLite DB simultaneously may lead to concurrency problems very quickly.