I want to load only the css needed for the login page for performance. On my other pages I want a grouped css file that will be cached on every page which contain all my css
Put your styles into various partial files in a way that makes sense to you. Then, you can have create a separate SASS file for your login page that imports only the files with the relevant styles.
To quote from my answer to another question:
It is currently not possible to use SASS to include files dynamically.
@importcannot be used within control directives (e.g.@if) or mixins, using a variable in an import directive is erroneous syntax, and there is no directive for ending file execution early (which effectively would allow conditional imports). However, you can solve your issue by changing how you structure your style rules.... If you have styles that [should be] conditionally included [they] should be encapsulated in mixins, in 'module' or 'library' files. ... The main idea is that importing one such file will not output any css. This way, you can import these files redundantly so you can use the mixins wherever you need them.