I have code that looks like this:
class T {};
class container {
const T &first, T &second;
container(const T&first, const T & second);
};
Don't do this. A temporary is destroyed immediately after the expression in which it was created (except in the case that it's immediately bound to a reference, in which case it's the scope of the reference). The lifetime cannot be extended to that of the class.
This is why I never store members as references - only copied objects or pointers. To me, pointers make it obvious that the lifetime comes in to play. Especially in the case of a constructor, it's non-obvious that your constructor params must outlive the class itself.