When starting jetty-distribution-9.3.0.v20150612 with openjdk 1.8.0_51 running on an EC2 Amazon Linux machine, is prints that all configured ECDHE
Try installing the JCE Unlimited Strength Jurisdiction Policy Files (these should help with your higher bit ciphers)
Also note, in the link you provided about java 8 cipher protocol support says
Cipher suites that use Elliptic Curve Cryptography (ECDSA, ECDH, ECDHE, ECDH_anon) require a JCE cryptographic provider ...
Did you install such a provider on your Java 8 VM?