It\'s common to see a _var variable name in a class field. What does the underscore mean? Is there a reference for all these special naming conventions?
As far as the C and C++ languages are concerned there is no special meaning to an underscore in the name (beginning, middle or end). It's just a valid variable name character. The "conventions" come from coding practices within a coding community.
As already indicated by various examples above, _ in the beginning may mean private or protected members of a class in C++.
Let me just give some history that may be fun trivia. In UNIX if you have a core C library function and a kernel back-end where you want to expose the kernel function to user space as well the _ is stuck in front of the function stub that calls the kernel function directly without doing anything else. The most famous and familiar example of this is exit() vs _exit() under BSD and SysV type kernels: There, exit() does user-space stuff before calling the kernel's exit service, whereas _exit just maps to the kernel's exit service.
So _ was used for "local" stuff in this case local being machine-local. Typically _functions() were not portable. In that you should not expect same behaviour across various platforms.
Now as for _ in variable names, such as
int _foo;
Well psychologically, an _ is an odd thing to have to type in the beginning. So if you want to create a variable name that would have a lesser chance of a clash with something else, ESPECIALLY when dealing with pre-processor substitutions you want consider uses of _.
My basic advice would be to always follow the convention of your coding community, so that you can collaborate more effectively.