in my C#-project, I have a class which contains a List
public class MyClass
{
public MyClass parent;
public List children;
...
}
If you hand the caller the List, you can't control this; you can't even subclass List, since the add/remove are not virtual.
Instead, then, I would expose the data as IEnumerable:
private readonly List children = new List();
public void AddChild(MyClass child) {...}
public void RemoveChild(MyClass child) {...}
public IEnumerable Children {
get {
foreach(var child in children) yield return child;
}
}
(the yield return prevents them just casting it)
The caller can still use foreach on .Children, and thanks to LINQ they can do all the other fun things too (Where, First, etc).