I\'m asking this question given my chosen development frameworks of JPA (Hibernate implementation of), Spring, and
I've successfully solved all my lazy initialization problems with Open Session In View -pattern (ie. the Spring implementation). The technologies I used were the exact same as you have.
Using this pattern allows me to fully map the entity relationships and not worry about fetching child entities in the dao. Mostly. In 90% of the cases the pattern solves the lazy initialization needs in the view. In some cases you'll have to "manually" initialize relationships. These cases were rare and always involved very very complex mappings in my case.
When using Open Entity Manager In View pattern it's important to define the entity relationships and especially propagation and transactional settings correctly. If these are not configured properly, there will be errors related to closed sessions when some entity is lazily initialized in the view and it fails due to the session having been closed already.
I definately would go with option 1. Option 2 might be needed sometimes, but I see absolutely no reason to use option 3. Option 4 is also a no no. Eagerly fetching everything kills the performance of any view that needs to list just a few properties of some parent entities (orders in tis case).
During development there will be N+1 selects as a result of initializing some relationships in the view. But this is not a reason to discard the pattern. Just fix these problems as they arise and before delivering the code to production. It's as easy to fix these problems with OEMIV pattern as it's with any other pattern: add the proper dao or service methods, fix the controller to call a different finder method, maybe add a view to the database etc.