MongoDB relationships: embed or reference?

Question

I\'m new to MongoDB--coming from a relational database background. I want to design a question structure with some comments, but I don\'t know which relationship to use for

Answer 1

I came across this small presentation while researching this question on my own. I was surprised at how well it was laid out, both the info and the presentation of it.

http://openmymind.net/Multiple-Collections-Versus-Embedded-Documents

It summarized:

As a general rule, if you have a lot of [child documents] or if they are large, a separate collection might be best.

Smaller and/or fewer documents tend to be a natural fit for embedding.