I have this statement:
[custData setObject: [rs stringForColumnIndex:2] forKey: @\"email\"];
where [rs stringForColumnIndex:2] o
There is a non-nil object called NSNull that is built specifically to represent nils in situations where "plain" nil is not acceptable. If you replace your nils with [NSNull null] object, NSDictionary will take them. You would need to check for NSNull on the way out, though.
Note that this is important only when you must differentiate between a value not being set and a value being set to nil. If your code is such that it can interpret a missing value as nil, you do not need to use NSNull at all.