This is a bit of a two part question, all about the atomicity of std::shared_ptr:
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As far as I can tell, std::shared_ptr
My second question is why wasn't a non-atomic version of std::shared_ptr provided in C++11? (assuming there is a why).
One could just as easily ask why there isn't an intrusive pointer, or any number of other possible variations of shared pointers one could have.
The design of shared_ptr, handed down from Boost, has been to create a minimum standard lingua-franca of smart pointers. That, generally speaking, you can just pull this down off the wall and use it. It's something that would be used generally, across a wide variety of applications. You can put it in an interface, and odds are good people will be willing to use it.
Threading is only going to get more prevalent in the future. Indeed, as time passes, threading will generally be one of the primary means to achieve performance. Requiring the basic smart pointer to do the bare minimum needed to support threading facilitates this reality.
Dumping a half-dozen smart pointers with minor variations between them into the standard, or even worse a policy-based smart pointer, would have been terrible. Everyone would pick the pointer they like best and forswear all others. Nobody would be able to communicate with anyone else. It'd be like the current situations with C++ strings, where everyone has their own type. Only far worse, because interoperation with strings is a lot easier than interoperation between smart pointer classes.
Boost, and by extension the committee, picked a specific smart pointer to use. It provided a good balance of features and was widely and commonly used in practice.
std::vector has some inefficiencies compared to naked arrays in some corner cases too. It has some limitations; some uses really want to have a hard limit on the size of a vector, without using a throwing allocator. However, the committee didn't design vector to be everything for everyone. It was designed to be a good default for most applications. Those for whom it can't work can just write an alternative that suites their needs.
Just as you can for a smart pointer if shared_ptr's atomicity is a burden. Then again, one might also consider not copying them around so much.