What are some of the methods/techniques experienced SQL developers use to determine if a particular SQL query will scale well as load increases, rows in associated tables increa
don't make tables wide, keep them narrow as well as the indexes. Make sure that queries are fully covered by indexes and that those queries are SARGable.
Test with a ton of data before going in production, take a look at this: Your testbed has to have the same volume of data as on production in order to simulate normal usage