Often when I\'m designing a site, I have a need for a specific style to apply to a specific element on a page and I\'m absolutely certain it will only ever apply to that element
Defining the style in the consuming page or inlineing your style are two sides of the same coin - in both cases you are using page bandwidth to get the style in there. I don't think one is necessarily better than the other.
I would advocate making an #Selector for it in your site-wide main stylesheet. The pollution is minimal and if you really have that many truly unique cases, you may want to rethink they way you mark-up your sites.