I am currently starting my Java VM with the com.sun.management.jmxremote.* properties so that I can connect to it via JConsole for management and m
com.sun.management.jmxremote.*
If anyone else will be losing his nerves with this ... After 10 years, they finally fixed it!
Since Java 8u102 -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.host binds to the selected IP
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.host
see: https://bugs.openjdk.java.net/browse/JDK-6425769